As per study, the children got more affected than an other while their parents go for divorce or separation. The child custody become a most prominent factor in divorce. Many parents make a huge mistake when they treat their children as confidantes before, during and after their divorce. Talking badly about the other parent overtly and subversively is harmful to the child and it is treating the child as a confidante. When going for a divorce, first it should be keep in mind that children do not need to know adult information about their parents’ personal relationships. It is none of the child’s business why you are divorcing. It has been found that children of divorce who have parents who openly hate each other often grow up having serious problems forming good partnerships in which to have their own family. They grow up not trusting people. They also usually grow up learning how to lie early because they will tell whatever parent they are with exactly what they want to hear. They are not trying to lie; they are simply trying to survive in the midst of a serious emotional war.