In spite of having many factors of divorce, the most deadly cause is the hatred‘. Hatred is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die. Hatred will cause anyone to seek a vengeful attitude and may even cause to participate in self-destructive behaviors. It can even cause to commit crimes such as murder. Every one of us probably has seen the movie on Life Time about Elisabeth Anne (Betty) Broderick who shot her ex-husband and his new wife to death in their bed. Though found in movies, the fact is it’s a general scenario which is faced by the couples who are in the way of divorce.

Any of us who let hate and negativity seep into our lives without fighting it, without trying to learn some sort of forgiveness can sink to that level because the hate is slowly poisoning all of the ability to reason until finally think it is a good idea to kill either him or yourself. To this day Betty feels justified by what she did. The hate took away her mind so thoroughly. But everyone should understand that it is not hurting the person that we think we are aiming at in any way. It will not get you what we want.