There is a saying matches are fixed in heaven and when they meet they will live happily ever after. But if it is so why people end their marriages? Apparently if they dont choose the right person. In the beginning the partners are so engrossed in each other’s outer appearance that they fail take a peek inside. They fail to understand that when people live together only 10% of the relationship is dependent on physical relationship, the rest is dependent on the way both of you think and react to various things.So gardually as time passes the sweet nothings become the unpleasant issues leading to a failed marriage and ultimately divorce.
Overwhelming expectations, overpowering urge to prove oneself right and lack of understanding often leads to such wounds in the relationship that no medicine of love or sympathy later can heal it. The wound only becomes more and more severe and ultimately one day they quits. This is the narrative of most marriages that fail but a given an afterthought one can find that the relationship could have survived with patience and less egotism. So a bit more mature thinking before taking any decision and we all can live happily ever after with our love of life.
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